by Emma Hammond 0 comments
Being Ripped vs. Being Healthy:
I love the opportunity to start with a new training client. Learning more about their history, outlook on training & experience always gives me a new perspective I can use to better connect with others. Yesterday I began with a newbie to me who had come from over 3 years of training in a traditional bodybuilding style gym. While I actually consider myself a little on the “bro” bodybuilding side myself, true bodybuilding is an athletic endeavor focusing on maximizing aesthetics goals over all else.
This client is a doctor so very well educated on the health side of life. This spurred an excellent conversation regarding how people from the outside perspective idealize the hot, toned or ripped physique. It is automatically correlated with health, vitality & strength. Where as you see the normal girl who claims to need to lose that last 5-10lbs, has a bit of cellulite & a touch of softness around her tummy as much less “healthy” than the muscle bound fitness model.
Honestly look at these pictures & tell me without thinking who you see as the model of health?
Yes I would probably have answered the same a few years ago. However as the good ole Dr. & Iwere chatting, we both acknowledged several observation from his years of bro style training. (PS yes I say bro style training for laughs, I have no issue with it what so ever..:)
Anywho he discussed the women in there who lifted for 2 hours but had to sleep or use stimulants the rest of the day due to extreme fatigue from overtraining & under-eating. The number of beautiful buff bodies who were full of chemicals, stimulants, depressants & other enhancements to get any extra inch of muscle. To hell with the internal damage it caused! Speaking of the internal damage, I would say the majority of those super thin societally deemed gorgeous women lacked a menstrual cycle. As it’s HEALHY for women to carry body fat in order have a functioning period, regulate body temperature, have shiny hair & nails, brains function & SOOOO many more important health markers.
Now I am not just picking on body builders. As I know this is not the person most of us relate to. Instead how about I use myself as an example eh? Why not throw my own former habits under the bus…
Now let’s be real. By being healthy I REALLY meant being skinny. Nope not even “in shape” or “fit”, I wanted to be skinny because that’s what people praised. I lost a few pounds, people would notice & say “girl you look so skinny lately”. In of course a super positive way! Obviously skinny gave me added value, acceptance & I assumed would mean being healthy. So I did so. I ran a ton, I ate a lot of lettuce, low fat granola bars, fat free yogurt, ate egg whites & hell even went vegetarian for a really long time. Did it work? On the outside yes. I did lose weight. In fact I got down to well under 100lbs! YAY I am now LESS weight in the world.
On the inside however I was a hot mess. I had major digestive problems, became anemic, liver enzyme tests showed issues, hair fell out, low libido (sorry mom!), major mood issues, bad/discolored skin & lost my menstrual cycle that I have battled to regain going on 5 years!
Yes everyone (myself included) praised my new found healthy lifestyle because I was now skinny. SCORE! I had such good “willpower”, “discipline” & “self control” which obviously made me superior to all those chubby people n the world who lacked my ability to eat less, move more & feel like garbage most of the day. Granted this was NEVER my thought process. I never once looked in the mirror & thought “damn girl you look hot”. It was always “why do I still have cellulite here”, “why don’t my arms look toned” all while pinching every much needed ounce of body fat left on my frame. Yes, weight obviously correlates to happiness..
Said no one ever..
Yes that’s a bit of personal info from me, which is super hard for me to admit to. Yet I know many of you can relate to these feelings. To looking at the folks running triathlons, doing crossfit 6x a week or now throwing around “strong is the new skinny”. Because that’s exactly what we need in life! Another BS way to evaluate our worth by our physical endeavors.
Ok I have digressed on this post I will admit. However the purpose is to say health is something built from the inside. You can be visually small & be healthy OR very unhealthy. You can be overweight & be healthy OR not healthy. The hard part is understanding that we have to fix the inside before the outside. Or at least that’s the longterm SUSTAINABLE way to do so.
This is also a hard reality when it comes to fat loss. I often have to break it to people that if you have spent years mistreating your body, feeding it crap, depriving it of nutrients & never moving of the sofa. The chances of you convincing it to suddenly cooperate & lose weight within a short period of time because now you’ve decided to give it some love. Well that’s unlikely to be a quick fix. It’s the biggest frustration I encounter when working with the yo-yo dieting club. You can’t starve, abuse & manipulate your body into health. It takes care, consistency, patience & even moderation in our approach.
Long story short. Don’t idolize others bodies as being healthy because the scale shows them a lower number then yours. The same goes that you shouldn’t assume because someone doesn’t hold a 6 pack or have the perfect runner’s body that they are unhealthy! We all have different bodies, shapes, sizes & desires to reach for. Focus on health 1st! As I promise being a skinny person who is tired, grumpy, angry & totally self deprecating is NOT healthy living. Strive to feel vibrant, eat nutritiously, feel like you are honoring your hunger, not letting food rule your world, working out to make your body stronger & letting all of these endeavors enhance your life! Soapbox weekly blog complete…:)
What signs do you look for in YOURSELF to show you are healthy, happy & living the life you are reaching for?body image, Fitness, Health, mindset, skinny